“The importance of focusSelf-respectNetworkingSelf-presentationImportance of growing as a young manStaying committedYou have motivation when you have a goal or planBe humbleRespect everyoneWork hard for what you wantEnjoy lifeLeadershipPrideConfidenceRespect othersMaking smart choicesRespect others’ ideasFighting won’t solve anythingWe are all influenced by different peopleBeing a man is something you earnStick with each other;You can chill with people you don’t knowWelcome everyoneHave an open mindStay on your grindHow to be a manHow to advocate for myselfHelp others succeed with youDon’t leave any man behind;Take what opportunity is given to youThe opportunity is there if you want itMen do what they need to do—not what they want to doAlways believe in yourself and what you can doNetworking is key to more opportunitiesTo become a stronger studentGood work ethicWatch what you saySeparate from the badMaintain good gradesRespect eldersHear everyone’s voiceHow to be more responsibleHow to be a leaderHow to surviveHow to communicateHow to be considerateHow to make better choicesThat I am so much smarter, creative, and ambitious than I give myself credit forLook on the bright side of thingsWho you surround yourself with mattersLoyaltyAccountabilityBe vocalMake your own choicesThink criticallyEverybody is the sameSelf-controlLove yourselfCommunity mattersTalk about your lifeLove your bros”
“I’m staying committedI communicate better with peopleI stopped trying to act tough and cool, and tried to be just myselfMy confidence—I can talk around people nowWhat to say in front of a roomHow to communicate with people I don’t knowI’m more focused—before distractions would throw me offI’m less likely to react badlyI know to take action—things aren’t done by themselvesI went from being a lazy student who got bad grades to a respectable kid who gets A’s and B’sTo become a stronger student and manage good work ethicTo live life the best you canI got good ideas about lifeI am more confident, mature, and I have a better image in my head for what I want for my futureLearned to be mature and focusI learned the time to work and the time to playBecame more responsibleI learned to look at myself as a leaderI’m looking at life a whole new wayI have more tenacity about improving my future. “As long as the program doesn’t end I’m fine.””
“I wanted to thank you again for your role in [the May 2023 Collaboration for Community Health Funded Partner Convening] event. We are proud of our partnership with Young Man With A Plan and so thrilled to be able to feature your incredible work. I think the excitement for your unique model was captured by Dr. Vuky’s remark that we need your program everywhere in the City!”